My friend and I met after the longest time & in our attempt to catch up we spoke about things that keep our minds busy as single women between the ages of 25-35 yrs. And then we realized no matter what type of woman you might be, ambitious or laid back, intelligent or otherwise, innocent or cunning ; "dating , sex & relationships" (in this order) are always tricky and raise lots of doubts in our minds...Also we are very inspired by the women in Sex & the City... So we have decided to take up each doubt that comes to our head and talk about it...People who read this are more than welcomed to give their opinion...
So with no further ado, our topic for today : Do we need drama in relationships for them to be real??
Having had my fair share of LSD & having kissed major frogs in my life: I have realized if I am involved there will be Drama. I have won awards for being a Drama Queen & found myself creating drama out of nothing just to make life interesting. Having said that, I want to add that if one is as dramatic as I am , having a relationship with someone as dramatic can be a maddening experience.. It might feel like a storybook romance initially but the endings could be rather "disastrous" au contraire "happily ever after". Even though the other person might seem like he is easily available or too easy & you might think its boring or something is wrong with that; believe me women there is nothing wrong. If someone doesn't sweep you off your feet & you don't fall head over heels in love with them; does not mean that something is wrong; it only means the person is real and even without the drama he will stand beside you ( or in my case; in spite of the drama).
So yes, relationships can be real even without Drama and even if there is Drama make sure you are the one creating it & not the other person. Life is too short & its best to keep it simple..
That's my view but i sure want to know what you other ladies think..Feel free to comment and soon ill be taking up another doubt that pops in my head...
Till my next post ..xoxo..
So with no further ado, our topic for today : Do we need drama in relationships for them to be real??
Having had my fair share of LSD & having kissed major frogs in my life: I have realized if I am involved there will be Drama. I have won awards for being a Drama Queen & found myself creating drama out of nothing just to make life interesting. Having said that, I want to add that if one is as dramatic as I am , having a relationship with someone as dramatic can be a maddening experience.. It might feel like a storybook romance initially but the endings could be rather "disastrous" au contraire "happily ever after". Even though the other person might seem like he is easily available or too easy & you might think its boring or something is wrong with that; believe me women there is nothing wrong. If someone doesn't sweep you off your feet & you don't fall head over heels in love with them; does not mean that something is wrong; it only means the person is real and even without the drama he will stand beside you ( or in my case; in spite of the drama).
So yes, relationships can be real even without Drama and even if there is Drama make sure you are the one creating it & not the other person. Life is too short & its best to keep it simple..
That's my view but i sure want to know what you other ladies think..Feel free to comment and soon ill be taking up another doubt that pops in my head...
Till my next post ..xoxo..
Yach and I have a similar track record however her experiences have been more intense and exhaustive :) I still consider myself quite naive in all these 3 areas!
ReplyDeleteHowever, thanks to being a girl, a cancerian and an emotional fool - Drama has always been a part of all relationships I've been in. But when I look back, all those dramatic incidents have'nt done me good, instead have turned me into an emotional wreck time and again.
After turning 25 and I'd like to believe I'm a wee bit wiser now, I totally feel relationships need no drama - especially the kinds which is not appreciated by your partner and something that's only going to hurt you later. As they say follow the KISS principle in management, I feel it's more important to let your personal relationships be guided by it. After all DRAMA is for an audience to mock at, laugh at, critic or appreciate! And who the hell wants an audience to give any goddamn take on their relationships. So KEEP IT SIMPLE SILLY! Life's too complicated in itself to even try and make it more dramatic :)
Being the third leg of this post, I might not be able shed light on 'dramatic' relationships cause I have always experienced otherwise, but I would say.. create Drama. I am not sure if we need drama in relationships for them to be real but we surely need drama to keep it exciting atleast little drama(I am a sucker for Bollywood hence I love the plot).
ReplyDeleteMoving on, what I am trying to highlight here is that its the degree of drama you live and not the word. I could equate 'being dramatic' to lot of things such as making an effort in a relationship is drama but then thats just me.
I think what Yachna and Drashti are trying to say here is the time "Drama" has started to really stress you out drop it. And for sure one can do without the stress unless you enjoy that too! :P